Young People in Twinning
Hi everyone
Stimulated by Dave and juliet's messages of February 19, 'Lots of Trips' in which they discussed this subject, I went with a friend to a meeting in Bromsgrove of the Worcestershire Twinning Association last week where it was on the Agenda together with the subject of "Re-inventing Twinning for the Modern Age."
These two subjects appear totally different, but they are in fact linked in my opinion.
Young People
It was said that older people in British Twinning Associations want to enjoy meeting old friends abroad in a 'safe' and comfortable environment, to make visits to interesting places and to have fun. They do not want to travel to new, far off countries sometimes riding in the back of a lorry for example to very basic accomodation with perhaps some health hazards.
Young British people on the other hand it was felt, often regard a trip across the Channel for the weekend to be boring. They are looking for adventure, new experiences and excitement - such as can be found in a country never before visited and possibly not as affluent as our own.
Perhaps that is why we have so much trouble attracting them?
It was also said at the meeting that French people might have better connections and relationships with their young people across the age differences than we do in Britain. There was no-one there from France, so there was no answer. Is this true?
'Back to the Drawing Board?'
Someone at the meeting surprised me. He said "when I think back fifty years, it is clear to me that the purpose of Twinning was to make friends from enemies and that is why we twinned with towns in Germany. Who are the enemies today with whom we wish to make friends?"
Clearly, France is not one of "the enemies" of Britain and has not been for a hundred years or so, indeed there is an 'entente cordiale', and I personally have always been greeted with wonderful hospitality and kindness even from strangers there outside of Twinning. Sometimes however people in Britain feel that politically, France "does not keep to the rules!" (maybe French people think similar things about Britain!) and that French workers and particularly farmers take a more aggressive position when things happen that they do not like - they have blocked French ports in the past for instance - and therefore change things to the disadvantage of Britain.
It seems to me that is why the friendships developed through our twinning with Cholet for example are so important.
But should we be looking to young people to develop twinning with the countries of Asia, the Middle East and Africa for example - and should we be helping them to do this through our Twinning expertise?
Richard
6 Comments:
I found your blog via a Google Alert on twinning matters.
My name is Alan Wicks, of the Sandy Twinning Association, who have turned their website into a National Portal to the world of Twinning within the UK. My position is National Co-ordinator of the website which can be found at www.towntwinning.org.uk.
I was very interested in some of the comments on your blog especially regarding the way forward for youth twinning.
The remarks about what the old twinners want and what the youth are more likely to be looking for is something that perhaps more twinning associations should be considering. Over the past 30+ years I have been involved with 7 different twinning associations, on the committee of most of them and would like to say that most of them are now beginning to realise that the only way to survive is to involve the younger generation but find it difficult to know how to attract them.
One of the features on www.towntwinning.org.uk is a forum or discussion board and we would welcome discussion from your members of Solihull Penfriends on the youth aspect of twinning.
Perhaps the opportunity of reaching a wider audience would be beneficial to us all.
Good luck in your efforts.
Alan
Thank you Alan, for your interest and response - I hadn't realised that we were so widely accessable and am very pleased!
I, and hopefully other members will get back to you on your website.
A "wider audience" can only be good I guess.
Richard
Hello Richard, thank you for your prompt reply. I have just received a posting in the forums on www.towntwinning.org.uk which fits in nicely with your blog conversations, so have taken the liberty on linking to your blog in the hope that other people will comment and take up your suggestions.
Alan
I've come to your blog via the National Twinning Portal, so the system works!
I've been reading with interest some of the comments about the role that young people have to play in twinning. We've 55 years' experience with our fairly-conveniently placed German twin town, and a number of youth groups, and individuals, are now involved, so on the face of it that's a fairly healthy situation.
But we're looking at setting up a "youth twinning forum", which will bring them all together - and could well become a catalyst for new ideas, change, new directions and all the things that have been mentioned in your comments. We dyed-in-the-wool, tunnel-vision oldies will probably find this difficult, even threatening, but I'm sure that we should accept it, if and when it comes; the EU itself is asking us to think about looking more widely, and if the youth groups also push us that way then I think they'll be doing us a service. Not that I want more work - we're so successful at growing more contacts within the present twinning that I tremble at the thought of a whole new ball-game as well!
The young people in the groups are at present Germany-focused, mainly because they have been led by us old hands who know no other. But I shall certainly be shouting encouragement from the sidelines when they set up their webcam links with Africa or their video-conferencing with Asia! Bring it on, as I think they say!
Good luck, twinners old and new!
Ray
www.kidderminster-husum-twinning.co.uk
Thank you Ray for your comments.
I'm not quite sure what you mean by " we're so successful at growing more contacts within the present twinning" etc.
What are those contacts please - and how are they 'grown'?
Thanks again for your thoughts on this, to me, very important topic.
Richard
Hi, Richard and all the twinners out there.
Briefly (if I can keep a tight rein, which is usually impossible), "growing our own" is exactly what it says - particularly appropriate in the case of the Horticultural Soc. (I'm not sure whether they came to us or we went seeking them, but anyway they're now happily linked with a group of gardeners in Germany (see latest Newsletter on www.kidderminster-husum-twinning.co.uk).
We don't just have a civic/twinning "big bash", but rather we facilitate the linking of groups, families, individuals, etc., who can all come to us for travel advice, contacts in Germany, things to do and places to go, perhaps even a small cheque to help things along. Thus it was that in 2003 alone we saw 400+ Kidderminster folk make the journey to Schleswig-Holstein, and other years before and since have been nearly as populated.
We do, of course, make sure that the civic leaders are "on side" - the Mayor, every year, is introduced to the delights of the Braukeller and the Rathaus, and likewise the Buegermeister and the Buegervorsteher travel in this direction. Twinning Assoc members are frequent visitors, with or without their respective interest groups, but it doesn't stop there, and new links are continually being suggested, investigated, encouraged. In March, for example, Husum was invaded by a group consisting of the Mayor, Carnival Queen, two youth group members, a historian, members of the Carnival committee and one or two others. During that weekend more new possibilities cropped up: artists, the Fire Service, the Lions, and marathon runners! These will all be checked out, and if it's possible we shall get contacts going. Sometimes progress is a bit glacial, but we usually get there in the end!
Other links that are very much alive include (not exhaustive - I don't have all the details in front of me!):
Choral Society
Ladies Choir
Male Choir
Orchestra
Scouts
Cricketers
Churches (very strong ecumenical link)
Church organists
the Carnival Queen links with Husum's Crocus Queen
Pubs (!)
Youth Centre
Schools
FE College
Former members of youth groups ("the oldies")
This way of doing it is obviously not everybody's cup of tea, but we rather enjoy the challenge!
Viele Gruessen an alles!
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